Had my first pet from 2 years old after rescuing her from abusive neighbours. So, my whole life I've been active looking after pets (dogs, cats, bird), some farming experience, and enjoy strong rapport with others' pets. In parks, dogs come up and happily say hello. Visiting friends, cats that hide from strangers come up to say "hello" and rub my leg or jump on my lap. I'll happily follow your instructions, even they they differ from my philosophy. They're your family member.