Hi all!! I'm a single mom to a 3yr old beautiful girl, I have been for all of her life...i work a great job, but I want to get more financially stable...I'm a recent college grad and I am finally in a secure position physically and mentally to want to hire a sitter (outside of her daycare) & utilize them so I can work a part time job or maybe overtime at my current job. My only apprehensions so far are the fact that if I get another job then my time would be split with my daughter, or the scheduling would limit the wknd time....i just need some advice from other single parents like me....who understand!!! Thanks!!!

I totallly understand your position. I finished school when my daughter was two and have been trying to play "catch up" with finances etc for us ever since. I currently work full time and have been picking up hours for months. Since Thanksgiving I have worked every Saturday but 5, plus an extra 2 or 3 hours a day. The money has definitely helped pay down some student loans and car payments, however, it does come with a price. I spend only a couple hours a night with my daughter and Sundays are really the only full days we have with one another. Because of this, I have begun taking "Mini" Mother daughter Vacations because at this point it is extremely difficult to continue to work this much and maintain a happy/healthy relationship with her. Do what works best for you. Try things out and if you realize it's not for you and your little girl, then you can always cut back. Just make sure you put some of that extra money away just to spoil yourselves together. It makes it all just a little bit more worth it!

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