I have a 11 years old kid so as a Mother myself i know how to take care of kids and i know how to make them feel love and care as my own kid(but i make sure that the love i give is from a mother figure and not a biological mother meaning i dont go beyond limitation of their own mother's rules.we all have different kinds of way to take care and how to raise kids,so i just normally want to know how you wanted to take care of them and how you want me to do things to them,so i just basically adapt the things you noramlly do to your kids.