I love giving out attention and love. I have four years of experience working with autistic kids. What I have learned about caring for them is Your child may need a five minute, two minute or one minute warning before there is a change of activity or behavior. For example saying you have five minutes but not waiting the whole five minutes waiting about two minutes that gives a child feeling more in control without controlling us. Set your boundaries and stick to them and follow through. As well as using the words first and then. For example I would say first less cleanup then we can go to the park. Depending on your needs And your child's skill set you can either do this verbally use pictures or writing items down rewarding positive behavior. Focusing on what you want your child to do not what you want them to stop doing. I have learned so much working with different families and I'm still learning I would love to help