Hands-on Care Needed For My Father In Leesburg

About who needs care: Alzheimer's, recently bedridden due to gout and arthritis, overweight. Stubborn and somewhat combative but not physically. Looking to see if we can get him back on his feet, and assist with daily care/bathrooming etc. as well as keep occupied/awake during afternoon. About the care needs: Someone who won't be offended by non-cooperation/dismissal. Assistance with crushing pills to put in food, daily hygiene, etc. Services needed include: feeding, bathing / dressing, and mobility assistance.