Companion Care Needed For My Mother In Poughkeepsie

About who needs care: My 87-year-old father has had a number of health challenges recently and my 81 year mother is overwhelmed. She does all the driving and most of the household tasks. They are both experiencing depression. My mother is a quilter and my father likes to tinker around in his office. They are both retired university professors. They wake up late and don't usually eat lunch until around two. My father has trouble sleeping, and he loves to watch movies. About the care needs: They are very set in their ways and don't respond well to people who are overly demonstrative or who talk in a way that indicates they don't understand or cannot relate. Don't mention the use of technology - that is a sticking point for my mother. Services needed include: meal preparation, errands / shopping, and light housekeeping.