Hands-on Care Needed For My Loved One In Carthage

About who needs care: I am looking for a home health aide for my 75-year-old sister-in-law who lives in Carthage, NY. My husband and I live in New Jersey and are her closest relatives. She has very little mobility and uses 2 canes. We are getting her a walker with a seat. She needs help with meal preparation, getting grocery deliveries into her house, sorting and taking out her trash, perhaps helping with bathing and dressing. We are primarily concerned with getting her to eat. She is frail and has lost a lot of weight. About the care needs: Someone caring and compassion at who can be somewhat firm. She can be set in her ways. Services needed include: meal preparation, errands / shopping, light housekeeping, feeding, and bathing / dressing.