Hands-on Care Needed For My Mother In Portland

About who needs care: Both parents are late 80's, my mother is sleeping 16-21 hours a day and unable to do much cleaning and cooking. Looking for help mostly with cleaning, cooking, and laundry -- as well as give my dad a break to go do errands or go to appointments. My mom has no physical "diagnosis" other than exhaustion, low body weight and muscle weakness. No hobbies except reading. My dad loves golf. About the care needs: Good sense of humor, sarcastic, energetic, smiles a lot, authentic, kind. Mom generally is a very private person and would rather not have people in the house, so someone who can tolerate a little resistance at the beginning. Someone who can do a little PT or movement with her would be great. A retired nurse might be helpful as my mother's needs grow. Services needed include: meal preparation, errands / shopping, light housekeeping, companionship, feeding, and bathing / dressing.