About who needs care: He's pretty grouchy. He doesn't want to do anything. My brother lives with him but can't get him to do much. He's 90. About the care needs: My father will need a strong man or woman, both mentally and physically. I'm really not sure which will be better. He doesn't need help in the shower, he just needs to be made to do it. Same with laundry. Services needed include: meal preparation, errands / shopping, light housekeeping, feeding, and bathing / dressing.
Bathing / Dressing
Feeding
Light Housekeeping
Meal Preparation
Errands / Shopping