Hands-on Care Needed For My Mother In Groton

About who needs care: dementia, but living in independant living in an apartment. Needs help with evening meal and bedtime- she has problems with incontinence in the evening. Hobbies are crafting. About the care needs: would be great if someone could help her bath wash hair, etc. she is not allowing anyone to do this now, and it is a problem. she is very PRIVATE, and feels it is an invasio to have someone in the bathroom with her. would need to gain trust first. Services needed include: meal preparation, errands / shopping, light housekeeping, feeding, and bathing / dressing.