Hands-on Care Needed For My Mother In Malibu

My 80 yr old mom needs help, she mainly needs help with light shopping, eating, going to the bathroom, changing her diaper and bedding, doing some laundry, showering a couple times a week and taking her medication. She has early stages of vascular dementia and often screams at the T. V. We are looking for a women that is patient, understanding and caring. She is often hesitant to allow others to care for her and change her, but it is important that the caregiver is calm, encouraging and trustworthy. We are flexible with hours and pay, but we need someone ASAP.