About who needs care: My wife has dementia and she lives at home. She is mild-mannered, and she enjoys watching tv, doing crossword puzzles, and reading. She gets up late, we visit people and run errands if she feels up to it, and we rest at home. The main issues are that she gets restless at night, which keeps me up; and she needs to be under constant supervision because she has a compulsion to drink excessive amounts of water, which lands her in the hospital repeatedly. About the care needs: The best personality would be very patient and kind, and be able to firmly but gently set limits with her behaviors.