Hands-on Care Needed For Myself In Tulsa

About who needs care: Had heart attack & stroke within last 3 weeks. Right arm numb from stroke. Need help tying tennis shoes. Unable to wash hair. Days are unstructured and run around caring for husband who is pretty much confined to recliner all day. He is 83 and has heart issues also. Can get to store sometimes but can't carry much. Biggest need is water and Ensure. Most activities for me are TV and reading. About the care needs: Need someone who is patient with hearing loss. Need a person to help husband get a bath in the tub. I have an oddball sense of humor so they would have to be able to roll with it. There is a dog in the family and I might need help if she messes her bottom. My ability to cook is good right now so may need some meal prep. John likes fishing. I like westerns and mysteries. Services needed include: meal preparation, errands / shopping, light housekeeping, feeding, and bathing / dressing.