About who needs care: Suprapubic catheter, Need to stay hydrated and up and out of bed a lot of the time. Help going to bathroom and cleaning and getting ready for bed. Interacting some of the time on a personal level. But giving activities and going outside to create a good schedule. He is sociable but not too much. You don't need to talk to him to death but interact in a friendly positive way. About the care needs: Caring-not doing it for the money. Gets value genuinely helping other people. Lazy people need not apply. You wont be asked to do things that are not agreed upon specifically. I totally understand how bad that is when it happens. Everything is up front. Know basic medical senior care. CPR cert. if you like opera even better for him. Services needed include: feeding, and bathing / dressing.
Bathing / Dressing
Feeding
Meal Preparation