About who needs care: I am looking for a kind and dependable individual to assist my fiercely independent 87-year-old mother for 3-4 hours per week. She values her independence and prefers not to be taken care of but could use some help due to limited mobility after a heart attack last year. About My Mother: Personality: Strong-willed, independent, and values her autonomy. Current Health: Limited mobility but gets around on her own. Sleeps a lot but still cooks her own mealsjust at a slower pace. Support Network: My sister lives nearby and helps with groceries, but additional support would make her feel more self-reliant. Responsibilities: Help with light errands (e. g., groceries, pharmacy). Assist with light meal prep or cooking to make daily life easier. Provide occasional companionship and support in a respectful and non-intrusive manner. Ideal Candidate: Patient and understanding of my mothers desire to remain independent and her often stubborn nature to do things Reliable, caring, and comfortable working with seniors. Someone who can assist without being overbearing. About the care needs: The best personality fit for your mother would be someone who is: 1. Patient and Resilient: Someone who doesnt take things personally and can handle a bit of stubbornness or condescension with grace and understanding. 2. Adaptable: A person who can adjust to her way of doing things without getting frustrated, even if its not the most efficient way. 3. Respectful of Autonomy: Someone who understands and respects her need to feel independent and allows her to lead, while subtly offering support as needed. 4. Calm and Easygoing: A calm demeanor will help diffuse any potential tension and ensure a harmonious relationship. 5. Good Listener: Someone whos willing to listen, follow instructions, and accommodate her preferences without pushing back unnecessarily. 6. Empathetic but Assertive When Needed: While your mother might prefer to have things her way, it would help if the person can kindly guide her when a situation calls for safety or practicality. This person would need a strong sense of humor and a big heart to look past the tough exterior and focus on building trust and rapport with her. Services needed include: transportation, meal preparation, errands / shopping, and light housekeeping.
Light Housekeeping
Meal Preparation
Errands / Shopping
Transportation Required