Hands-on Care Needed For My Mother In Elizabeth City Area

We need hands-on care to take care of my mother in Hertford, NC. Daily assistance with bathing and dressing is our most important requirement. She is over 300lbs and has a hard time getting around. So, heavy lifting and helping her up/down will be required. We would really prefer someone who can handle a Dementia/Alzheimer's patient. She can be very moody at times and must be "forced or coerced" into taking a shower and/or taking care of personal hygiene. She may need assistance with taking medications daily and applying ointments to wounds. Light housework is also requested in order to keep my mother and her surroundings clean.