About who needs care: My father just had surgery to remove some cancer in his bladder. He does not handle medication well. My mother, who is a retired nurse, can't get him to do the things he's supposed to be doing. He does have dementia and his medicated, and usually does okay. However, his behavior has been erratic since he had surgery and he is not following any of his doctors protocols. I am not sure if this would be an ongoing work situation, or a temporary one. About the care needs: They should know how to put in a catheter. It would be great if they were a Democrat. It would be great if they knew of his background in public service, he responds to that.