Seeking Full-time Senior Care Provider

About who needs care: In wheelchair, feeding tube. One good eye, one lung, can't use rt arm. Anemic, heart rate, on oxygen, copd, osteoarthritis, cancer survivor. Drank before. Very weak. No physical therapy. No activities in general. Not wanting to follow instruction. Argued. Makes caring very difficult and stressful. Still has her mind. Doesn't hear well. Hygiene (should bathe more). About the care needs: She's hard to deal with, not totally honest at times. Absolutely does not want to follow instruction for exercises, sometimes changing out of soiled clothes. Very impatient. She only wants dad to do Everything. Very stressful for both. She likes her phone and tablet Services needed include: transportation, meal preparation, errands / shopping, light housekeeping, companionship, feeding, bathing / dressing, and mobility assistance.