About who needs care: -She cannot move her body except for slight head and right-hand movements. -She communicates through hand signals, head nods, and occasionally spells out words using gestures. -Your responsibilities primarily include assisting with her daily needs, ensuring safety during transfers, maintaining her comfort and hygiene, and supporting her husband when necessary. About the care needs: 1. Personality Traits The ideal caregiver should possess the following qualities: Patient and Calm: Your mom may take time to communicate or may experience emotional changes. A caregiver with a calm and patient demeanor will ensure a peaceful caregiving environment. Empathetic and Caring: Someone who can understand her physical and emotional challenges and provide comfort during moments of frustration or discomfort. Attentive and Observant: To quickly recognize her non-verbal cues for discomfort, pain, or needs, especially when she uses gestures or facial expressions. Respectful and Culturally Sensitive: Understanding and respecting her preferences and cultural background, particularly around communication styles and house rules. Flexible and Adaptable: Willing to adjust to her routine, follow her husbands guidance when needed, and handle unexpected situations calmly. Detail-Oriented: Ensuring tasks like hygiene, diaper changes, and supplies management are performed with care and precision. 2. Specialized Skills The caregiver should have the following skills: Lifting and Transfer Techniques: Proper training in safe lifting and transfer methods to avoid injury to both themselves and your mom. This is especially critical given her limited mobility. Experience with Non-Verbal Communication: Familiarity with communicating through gestures, head nods, and spelling out words to understand non-verbal cues. Personal Care Expertise: Comfort and experience with diaper changes, hygiene maintenance, and preventing pressure sores through regular repositioning. Basic First Aid and Emergency Response: Knowing how to handle emergencies (e.g., recognizing signs of distress, calling 911, and administering basic first aid if necessary). Multilingual Abilities (Preferred): Mandarin Chinese proficiency is highly preferred to make communication with your mom easier and minimize reliance on translation from others. A bonus if the caregiver also understands Burmese or basic English for flexibility in communication. 3. Ideal Background Professional Caregiving Experience: Someone with prior experience in caregiving roles, especially with stroke survivors or elderly individuals with mobility challenges. Certified or Trained in Caregiving: Certifications in caregiving, CPR, or first aid are highly desirable. Pet-Friendly: Comfortable in a household with five cats, ensuring they treat the pets gently and follow your rules about keeping them safe indoors. By focusing on these traits, skills, and preferences, youll increase the likelihood of finding a caregiver who can provide compassionate, competent, and culturally aligned care for your mom. Let me know if youd like help tailoring this further! Services needed include: feeding, bathing / dressing, and mobility assistance.
Mobility Assistance
Bathing / Dressing
Feeding