About who needs care: Dementia, weak legs, veteran, Methodist, proud About the care needs: Veteran would be good to have something in common. Dad needs the help but resents it, if you can frame it as helping Mom instead that may work. Dad needs hygiene help as his legs get weaker and he's less able to shower and dress and move about on his own. Services needed include: meal preparation, errands / shopping, light housekeeping, feeding, bathing / dressing, and mobility assistance.
Mobility Assistance
Bathing / Dressing
Feeding
Light Housekeeping
Meal Preparation
Errands / Shopping