Just Looking For Help

You know what everyone around you says they're helping you but they're just not. I need help, I am a mom of two Littles, who used to have it all together and now I just don't. I am desperately trying to get my life back in order and I keep getting my hands slapped by babysitters. I need someone who can handle a boy, he's not a bad kid. He is 3 years old, he'll be four in April. He is just extra large for his size. My husband is 6 foot six, so my son is 3 foot six right now and he weighs over 60 pounds. He's not chubby, he's just tall and big. He looks like your average7-year-old. So when he does your normal3-year-old things it can be hard to handle. I need someone who can deal with tantrums, is OK to put their foot down and say you can't do that. I don't need someone who says they can handle a boy and quits on me a week later because my son threw a toy at them. My son is the epitome of boys will be boys and we are teaching him that it's OK but he also has to learn that it's not OK. It's a very fine line between your age and you can't hurt others. We are looking for someone to come in and embrace him. We don't wanna take away from him and shut him down. He's very very smart and we want him to know that. That being said I just need help, I need help getting to doctor appointments, I need help around the house, I need help getting outside to just go for a walk. If you think you can help me with my son and my daughter, please reach out. Thank you so much as of right now I am looking for just Thursdays, but as I start going through my house, I will be adding a day here and there.