I can offer a whole range of understanding towards with kids.I worked this past Canada day weekend with more then a couple of hundred of kids and giving directions of not to run on the ride trying to pull there memory and prod questions to how to be safe and who could get hurt and how if were unsafe on the ride pushing older kids to think of younger ones.My knowledge and experience with kids and different disorders is a wide range from ADHD,add, Autism and some others like dyslexia. As well as a life time of gratitude for my full spectrum autistic nephew who has a wide vocabulary though few words are English and more his gibberish. Competitive understanding was important for me and him to maintain so I'd respond according in talking to him and what he may be saying.I'd treat him now like a young teen where I won't tolerate back talk and yelling at and tell him example"Not now ,you need to sit down and eat I don't want to hear lip."But never aggressively merely there to direct.Hope I can make you feel to your utmost stress free when it comes to the security and happiness of your children.