I have had a privilege looking after the elderly in the nursing home in amyina in Scottsdale a few years back , I also had the privilege looking after my father in-law till hes wife decided to put him in aged care I kept on going to him every day and sepnt time with him as he still had choices regardless he lost his eye sight , could not walk with out assistance, which I was really happy on doing . But I loved him and I gave everything to him , listened , nurtured,most of all to be there when he needed me . I lost him at the age of 92 years of age , I then started to look after my mother inlaw who was 81.5 years of aged who was dealing with dementia, schizophrenia, and other problems, it was sad to see them go within 4 months of each other. I sorted out all the funeral arrangements for them both , along side my husband . There would not be one day that goes by that I would change anything. Everyone is unique and they have a choice and a voice and they deserve to be heard