Writing a letter to Santa Claus is a very important yearly tradition for kids who celebrate Christmas. If your little one, or a child you care for, is planning on taking pen — or crayon — to paper to write a letter to Old St. Nick, you’ll want a few guidelines to help them through the process and to make sure the letter gets to the North Pole in time.
We spoke with Sharon Silver, author and founder of Proactive Parenting Solutions, and did a little annual research at the United States Postal Service, to offer practical, meaningful tips for how to write a letter to Santa — and more importantly, how to provide some teachable moments along the way. Short on time? Print out the customizable letter to Santa template below.
1. Start the Santa letter early
Start talking about writing a letter to Santa shortly after Thanksgiving. That way you have time to enjoy every step of the way. Plus, teaching kids to not procrastinate until Christmas Eve supports good organizational skills. And Santa (ahem) needs time to get the items on the list.
2. Draft a wish list
Before the child creates the actual letter to Santa, encourage them to first write down a wish list of everything they think they want. This might take a few days to think about — it’s the most important part after all.
3. Teach boundaries
Most children are hoping to find tons of cool toys under the tree this year, but if the rough draft of their wish list is starting to get a little long, talk about narrowing it down to a few special items that are really important. Learning to ask for less can help them acquire boundaries, and getting fewer toys can actually help children to slow down, enjoy and appreciate their new gift fully.
4. Explain how to write a letter (or print this Dear Santa letter template!)
Use the link below to print out the letter to Santa template, complete with a wish list. Even younger kids can enjoy customizing this letter for St. Nick.
(Click to download this letter to Santa template as a PDF.)
For kids drafting their letter to Santa from scratch, talk about what goes into a typical letter. Explain the greeting, body and signature sections — and what goes in each. Discuss how can you write politely. Should you tell Santa about your year? Should you ask about Mrs. Claus and the reindeer? How should you say thank you? Add more or less details depending on the child’s age.
5. Support compassion
Writing letters to Santa can include a request for someone else — a good friend, a sibling or a less-fortunate child. The viral letter to Santa written by then-8-year old Ryan Suffern of North Carolina on behalf of his bullied twin sister swept the nation with feelings of hope and a renewed sense of what the holidays are about. Share this story with the child and ask them who they would like Santa to help this season.
“Empathy is a very new muscle for small children and must be directed by the parent,” Silver says. “This provides a great opportunity to establish a value system. The holiday is only about getting stuff if parents allow that. Teaching children that empathy is at the root of love and faith can be folded into a wonderful tradition that includes writing letters to Santa.”
6. Get crafty with the Santa letter
Turn this project into a fun holiday craft for kids. Of course, Santa loves traditional letters and envelopes written in crayon, but you can have some extra fun with glitter, stickers and other crafting supplies. Add holiday-themed designs, draw reindeer or candy canes along the edges, etc. Make sure there is plenty of construction paper and envelopes for do-overs on hand and let kids have fun with it.
7. Fill out the envelope
Now stuff that letter into an envelope and show the child how to address it to: Santa Claus, North Pole. (Want to get a letter back, postmarked from the North Pole? Follow these instructions on the USPS website.)
Many kids probably knows that Santa lives at the North Pole, but where is that exactly? Use this as an opportunity to talk about geography. Pull out a map of the world and point to that area. Talk about what it must be like there.
Then drop the letter to Santa in the mailbox and start baking cookies to leave out for him on Christmas Eve!
