Assisted living is a long-term residential option for older people that combines housing with medical, nursing, personal and other supportive services under one roof. It is for older adults who are still independent, but need help doing daily activities in a safe environment. Residents typically have their own room or suite, with a bathroom, but take meals communally in a dining room.
Here’s what else to know when considering an assisted living facility.
How is assisted living different from other senior living options?
While the staff at assisted living facilities include doctors, nurses, social workers and therapists, assisted living is not for people who have serious medical conditions that need a skilled nurse on a regular basis. For this type of care, you would need to choose a nursing home or skilled nursing facility.
Additionally, assisted living facilities do not operate under a federal regulatory standard (unlike nursing homes). Each state has its own licensing guidelines so the standards and costs vary from state to state and facility to facility.
Is assisted living the right choice?
To determine if assisted living is the right choice for you or an older loved one, there are a few questions to consider, according to Rachel Reeves, communications director at the National Center for Assisted Living (NCAL). They include:
- What kind of services do you want and/or require and how may they change over time? You might not need a reminder to take your medication or help getting dressed now, but you may in a few years.
- How much will each facility cost, and which services does that cost cover? Get the specifics in writing.
- How will you pay for it? Can Medicaid help cover certain costs?
- When you visit the residence, consider: Is it bright? Is it clean? How are the staff? How do the residents look? How are the meals? Can you see your loved one living there?
- Is the location convenient for friends and family to visit?
- Are the offered services things you need or care to participate in?
What are the pros and cons of assisted living?
Assisted living facilities can be an excellent choice for many older adults, but as with all senior living options, there are drawbacks to consider, as well. Here are some of the pros and cons of assisted living facilities:
Pros
While no two facilities are the same, the majority boast a host of services and supports that are hugely beneficial, physically, mentally and emotionally. Here are some of the services assisted living facilities may provide:
- Assistance with daily life activities, including bathing, dressing, taking medication.
- Daily meals.
- Housekeeping and laundry.
- Exercise programs.
- Recreational activities.
- Social services.
- Medical, health, therapeutic services (physical, speech and occupational).
- Transportation arrangements.
- Security.
Cons
For many, the biggest con for assisted living centers is the cost. The 2023 estimated national median cost for an assisted living facility was $5,350 per month — or about $64,200 per year — for a private one-bedroom, according to the Genworth Cost of Care Survey. Keep in mind, though, cost can vary widely from state to state.
What to look for in an assisted living facility
It can be daunting to try to figure out which assisted living facility you or your loved one will enjoy and find the necessary services all under one roof. You can start by asking for recommendations from trusted family members and friends or consulting an aging life care manager, social worker, elder law attorney or financial planner.
“When choosing a facility, it’s important to go visit and talk with the staff,” says Reeves. “Go a couple of times. Go during lunch or dinner. Talk with residents. Really get a feel for what the facility is like. There’s no one formula, everyone is different. Listening [to older loved ones] is so important. Give them as much autonomy as possible.”
How to pay for assisted living
Most assisted living facilities are paid for through private funds. Low-income adults may be able to use Medicaid to help pay for some costs, but the coverage depends from state to state. Some Medicaid plans can help pay for home and community-based services (HCBS), and in some states Medicaid can pay for assisted living communities, but the communities that accept this payment are becoming few and far between. Services that may be covered under Medicaid for HCBS include dietary management, skilled nursing care, personal care, and various therapies, like speech, occupational, or physical. In states where Medicaid doesn’t cover room and board, Medicaid programs may help with those costs through supplemental assistance or other ways of defraying those costs.
Medicare does not help pay for long-term care, including assisted living. Medicare is a health insurance program, so it covers various medical and nursing services, if you qualify for them. Assisted living is considered custodial care, which is not covered by Medicare. That said, individuals can use Medicare to help pay for certain prescriptions and therapies while living in an assisted living facility.
How to find assisted living near you
Each state has an agency that oversees these communities. It’s either the Office on Aging or the Department of Health, depending on the state. You can also visit NCAL State Affiliates for information in your area or search on Care.com.
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