Parents are no strangers to insomnia. We may be totally exhausted, but when our heads finally hit the pillow, our minds tend to fill with thoughts and worries, making it impossible to drift off. In situations like this, you may have considered taking a supplement like melatonin, an over-the-counter sleep aid known to help with insomnia.
If you are nursing a little one, though, you might be unsure if it’s safe for you and your baby if you take melatonin to help with sleep. Unfortunately, while some melatonin usage may be considered safe while breastfeeding, it’s not an option doctors say they usually recommend because there are still so many unknowns.
Here’s what experts say breastfeeding parents should know and understand about melatonin usage and its safety when you’re nursing, so you can make the right decision for you and your baby.
Should breastfeeding parents take melatonin for sleep?
Currently, there is not a lot of research or data on melatonin use while breastfeeding, explains Dr. Mitchell S. Kramer, chairman of the department of obstetrics and gynecology at Huntington Hospital. “Although occasional use can be considered to be safe, it is not recommended that breastfeeding women take melatonin on a regular basis,” Kramer says.
Emily Silver, certified family nurse practitioner, lactation consultant and co-founder of Nurture by NAPS, agrees that the data is limited when it comes to the question of whether melatonin is safe while breastfeeding. Still, her assumption is that it is likely compatible with breastfeeding, given the fact that melatonin naturally circulates in breast milk. Given the unknowns, though, Silver believes that melatonin use must be discussed with your doctor. “My best advice is to first try non-medicated efforts and then to talk to your doctor and/or lactation consultant,” she advises.
“My best advice is to first try non-medicated efforts and then to talk to your doctor and/or lactation consultant.”
— Emily Silver, certified family nurse practitioner, lactation consultant and co-founder of Nurture by NAPS
Dr. Jessica Madden, board-certified pediatrician and neonatologist, international board-certified lactation consultant and medical director at Aeroflow Breastpumps, agrees that there is not enough research as of now to readily recommend melatonin to breastfeeding parents. Her advice is to use it sparingly, if at all.
“We unfortunately do not have any research to guide safe dosing of melatonin supplements for breastfeeding mothers,” Madden says. “Because of this, I only recommend using small doses (less than 5 mg once daily at bedtime) and for short periods of time (less than two weeks).”
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Do babies get melatonin from breast milk?
Interestingly, yes. Breastfed babies get melatonin naturally from breast milk, according to Lactmed, a database run by the National Center for Biotechnology Information (NCBI). That’s because melatonin is a hormone our bodies produce in order to regulate sleep cycles and circadian rhythms. We produce more of it at night, so that we are good and ready for sleep. For this reason, nighttime is also when melatonin tends to peak in breastmilk, usually around 3 a.m.
Melatonin in breast milk may be beneficial for little ones, Madden says. “It is postulated that the higher levels of melatonin in breast milk produced during nighttime hours help to promote infant sleep at night.”
Can taking melatonin hurt my baby?
But what happens when a breastfeeding parent supplements with over-the-counter melatonin? Can that additional melatonin pass onto the baby? Kramer confirms that melatonin supplements can pass into breast milk and affect babies. However, we still lack the data to know if, and at what dosage, supplemental melatonin may be too much for babies to handle or could harm them in some way.
According to Lactmed, limited studies found no safety issues in babies when breastfeeding moms took melatonin supplements. Still, Lactmed concludes that while the short-term use of melatonin during breastfeeding isn’t likely to be harmful to babies, there is not enough data to prove this definitively.
“I am not aware of any research evaluating long-term use of melatonin while breastfeeding… Long-term effects on the baby with respect to development are not known.”
—Dr. Kecia Gaither, double board-certified in OB/GYN and maternal fetal medicine expert
And it’s not just the short-term usage of melatonin that concerns doctors. “I am not aware of any research evaluating long-term use of melatonin while breastfeeding,” says Dr. Kecia Gaither, double board-certified in OB/GYN and maternal fetal medicine expert. As such, she does not feel comfortable recommending its use during breastfeeding.
Kramer says that taking melatonin supplements may simply make your baby more sleepy on a short-term basis. But like Gaither, he is more concerned about the longer term effects that taking it might have on babies. “Long-term effects on the baby with respect to development are not known,” Kramer says.
Thankfully, there are studies being done right now to access these types of questions, he says. The problem is that these studies are in the very early stages, and there is no data regarding these questions yet.
What sleep aid is safe while breastfeeding?
Since doctors say they don’t typically recommend melatonin use while breastfeeding, you might be wondering if there are other sleep aids that are more well studied and considered safe for nursing parents.
“Safe sleep aids that we know more about their safety profile are doxylamine and diphenhydramine,” says Kramer. Both of these are antihistamines that are often used to induce sleep and are considered safe for breastfeeding in small doses. However, Madden warns that both of these medications may impact your milk supply.
“I do not recommend taking diphenhydramine while breastfeeding because it may decrease milk supply,” she says. Doxylamine can have similar effects on milk supply, according to Madden.
“If a breastfeeding mother opts to take either of these antihistamines, it should only be very occasionally, once their breast milk supply is fully established and ideally after the last breastfeeding or pumping session of the night,” Madden suggests. If you are considering using either of these medications as a sleep aid while breastfeeding, you should consult your doctor first.
Can I take sleeping pills while breastfeeding?
Kramer says that sleeping pills like zolpidem are considered safe while breastfeeding but should only be used occasionally and sparingly. The same goes for benzodiazepines (anxiety medications sometimes used to fall asleep), he says.
The reason why zolpidem and benzodiazepines may be safe is because only small amounts of them pass into breast milk, according to research. Still, all babies are different and it may not be advisable to take these medications if you are breastfeeding a medically vulnerable baby.
“It’s always best to discuss with one’s doctor regarding their use,” Kramer advises.
What are some alternatives for managing insomnia?
One concern with taking a sleep aid is the effect that it may have on the parent who is in charge of caring for their baby, Silver says. “I wouldn’t want a breastfeeding mom to become too sleepy to care safely for her baby overnight,” she says.
That said, both Silver and Gaither recommend trying other methods before turning to sleep aid medications and supplements. These may include:
- Breathing exercises.
- Mindful meditation before bed.
- Reading a book to wind down rather than scrolling through your phone.
- Making sure to exercise each day.
- Ending the day with a warm bath or a warm cup of milk.
It’s critical for every parent to get enough sleep, so if these tricks don’t work, talk to your doctor. “Momsomnia” is a real thing, Silver says, and we each need to find a solution to it that works for us and our babies.
Yes, being tired is part of being a parent, but we should at least be able to get some rest during those precious nighttime hours.
The bottom line
Melatonin is a popular sleep aid these days and it’s understandable that breastfeeding parents might wonder if they can take it, especially given how sleep deprived parents of little ones tend to be. Unfortunately, there isn’t enough data about the safety of melatonin while breastfeeding for health professionals to readily recommend it.
You should talk to your doctor if you are considering taking melatonin or any other sleep aid while breastfeeding. If they recommend against it, you can ask them for alternative, safer medications, as well as healthy lifestyle choices that can help you get your ZZZs.
