Get your stay off to a flying start by bringing a small present for the family.
As a guest, it is important not to show up empty handed. This applies to au pairs who are meeting their host family for the first time. But the big question remains: what do you get for a family who you haven’t yet met?
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It is worth putting some thought into the gift as it can be a great icebreaker during the first meeting. You should aim to please the family, but also keep in mind the weight, size and durability as it will be travelling with you. Here are a few suitable gift ideas:
1. Something typical from your home country
It is a nice gesture to bring something from your own home, for example, a food or drink that your country is famous for. Whether this is traditional biscuits, a type of chocolate or a special liqueur, bringing a gift from your home is a lovely gesture and encourages a positive mingling of cultures. Alternatively, you can bring a cookbook with recipes from your native country or a game that you can all play together.
2. Something homemade
Something homemade such as a craft, knitted garment or homecooked treats will be well received by the host family. So why not thinking about making a pot of jam, baking cookies, knitting little keychains or bringing a pretty homemade decoration for their home? What season are you arriving in? Should you bring a craft that is suitable for springtime or a homemade autumn garland?
3. For the host children
Good presents for the host children are traditional children’s books or an age-appropriate game from your home region. Giving a gift is a wonderful icebreaker between you and the little ones. It can also prove to be a great instant bonding moment if you have to translate from your mother tongue or explain the rules to an unfamiliar game.
4. In case of emergency
Do you still have no idea what to bring for your host family? Then simply ask your host parents what the children like to do. What hobbies do they have? Will they be pleased with a colouring book? Or would they prefer a skipping rope? It is never too early to become familiar with the interests of the children. Together you will find something suitable. And remember, what counts is the gesture itself. Give something small and meaningful rather than something big and expensive.
5. Know the customs regulations
It is important to be aware of the customs rules and regulations of the country you are entering. If you are planning on bringing food or any other animal products, check the regulations to make sure you are permitted to bring them. Similarly, if you are bringing a native alcoholic drink, check the quantities that you are allowed. The last thing you need is customs take your beautiful, thoughtful gifts!
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